We’re all different. You are a dreamer. He is very thoughtful. She is the sensitive one. They are straight. and I’m ... well, I write entirely to find out what I'm thinking, what I'm looking at, what I see and what it means. What I want and what I fear.


Thursday, May 27, 2010

73) Hugs Quotes ...!

I am sooo in love with the following quotations about hugs. I should have been to stop loving; but I couldn’t. Love is a habit. and I really, really; really have that habit :D
I found a secret here in them... and I found them the cheapest kind of medicine there is on this earth as well - and one of the best.

So... Here I go...

• Millions and millions of years would still not give me half enough time to describe that tiny instant of all eternity when you put your arms around me and I put my arms around you.

• Everybody needs a hug. It changes your metabolism.

• You can't wrap love in a box, but you can wrap a person in a hug.

• Hug Department: Always Open!

• A hug delights and warms and charms, that must be why God gave us arms.

• A hug is a handshake from the heart.

• A hug is a great gift - one size fits all, and it's easy to exchange.

• Happiness is an unexpected hug.

• If you're angry at a loved one, hug that person. And mean it. You may not want to hug - which is all the more reason to do so. It's hard to stay angry when someone shows they love you, and that's precisely what happens when we hug each other. [Speechless $!]

• A kiss without a hug is like a flower without the fragrance.

• A hug is worth a thousand words.
[Sometimes it's better to put love into hugs than to put it into words.]

• You can't give a hug without getting a hug.

• Never wait until tomorrow to hug someone you could hug today, because when you give one, you get one right back your way.

• Hugs are the universal medicine.

• There's nothing like a mama-hug. [God.. Protect mama please and heal her of what she has. I have a strong faith ya Rabb]


Wednesday, May 26, 2010

72) Today Is A New Life ! :D

Today is a new life ...
and I am going to live ...
I am not going to worry ...
I am not going to cry ...
I am going to smile ...
[Even if I’ll force myself to smile]
and if there is anything to mind over matter,
I am going to win ...
I am going to close this chapter of my life ...
and repeating ...
I am going to live :D ...

I learned to forget the yesterdays ...
and not think of the tomorrows ...
Each morning I say to myself:

“Today Is A New Life!” :D


Monday, May 24, 2010

71) Salutation To The Dawn!

I had learned my lesson now...
No more worry for me...
No more regret about what had happened in the past...
No more dread of the future...
I concentrate all my time, energie, effort to live in Today. in Now. and in Here :D ...
Salutation The Dawn

Look to this day!
For it is life, the very life of life.
In its brief course
Lie all the verities and realities of your existence:
The bliss of grow
thThe glory of action
The splendor of beauty,
For yesterday is but a dream
And tomorrow only a vision,
But today well lived makes every yesterday a dream of happiness
And every tomorrow a vision of hope.
Look well, therefore to this day!
Such is the salutation to the dawn.
- Kalidasa, Indian Poet

70) Quran - آية اليوم

وَلَا تَهِنُوا فِي ابْتِغَاءِ الْقَوْمِ ۖ إِنْ تَكُونُوا تَأْلَمُونَ فَإِنَّهُمْ يَأْلَمُونَ كَمَا تَأْلَمُونَ ۖ وَتَرْجُونَ مِنَ اللَّهِ مَا لَا يَرْجُونَ ۗ وَكَانَ اللَّهُ عَلِيمًا
وقوله تعالى " ولا تهنوا في ابتغاء القوم " أي لا تضعفوا في طلب عدوكم بل جدوا فيهم وقاتلوهم واقعدوا لهم كل مرصد " إن تكونوا تألمون فإنهم يألمون كما تألمون أي كما يصيبكم الجراح والقتل كذلك يحصل لهم كما قال تعالى إن يمسسكم قرح فقد مس القوم قرح مثله ثم قال تعالى " وترجون من الله ما لا يرجون " أي أنتم وإياهم سواء فيما يصيبكم وإياهم والجراح والآلام ولكن أنتم ترجون من الله المثوبة والنصر والتأييد كما وعدكم إياه في كتابه وعلى لسان رسوله صلى الله عليه وسلم وهو وعد حق وخبر صدق وهم لا يرجون شيئا من ذلك فأنتم أولى بالجهاد منهم وأشد رغبة فيه وفي إقامة كلمة الله وإعلائها " وكان الله عليما حكيما " أي هو أعلم وأحكم فيما يقدره ويقضيه وينفذه ويمضيه من أحكامه الكونية والشرعية وهو المحمود على كل حال .

Friday, May 21, 2010

69) Sa3a Ta3a Project ::: 9

حابة أعرفكم علي الزهرتين الجميلتين المتفتحتين دول .. اللي علي اليمين اسمها "التقوي" .. واللي علي الشمال اسمها الصبر" .. والخضار اللي ملئ المكان دا اسمه "الإحسان" والثلاثة منة من الرحمن
.. دائما باحس إن الحياة فيها الحلو والمر
.. ويمكن دي حقيقة أنا عارفاها كويس - مش مجرد إحساس

.. وكتير باحس إن مرارتها أكتر من حلاوتها
.. لكن باصبر نفسي وأقول إن الإنسان المؤمن. المتفائل. القوي
.. لازم يتخطي المحن. والصعوبات. والإبتلاءات - الصغيرة والكبيرة

.. ساعات باقدر أتخطي دا - بإذن من الله طبعا
!.. لكن ساعات ما باقدرش

.. وهنا

!.. باحس بيد خفية تعمل في صمت
تعمل برفق .. وبحب .. وبحكمة .. وبلطف .. وبحزم

.. وهنا

!.. باعرف إنها يد الله
.. المدبر .. يقول للشئ كن فيكون
.. يبدئ الأمور .. ويعلم عواقبها
بس الحكاية مش سهلة .. علشان مافيش حاجة سهلة
طب إيه المطلوب مني؟
تعالوا نتامل هذه الآية
إِنَّهُ مَنْ يَتَّقِ وَيَصْبِرْ فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يُضِيعُ أَجْرَ الْمُحْسِنِينَ

والله عاملة زي المعادلة الكيميائية
إِنَّهُ مَنْ يَتَّقِ + وَيَصْبِر ----◄ فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يُضِيعُ أَجْرَ الْمُحْسِنِينَ

هو دا كل اللي مطلوب مننا علشان دائما ربنا نلاقيه جانبنا
أوصيكم ونفسي بتقوي الله والصبر

صلي الله علي محمد .. صلي الله عليه وسلم

Monday, May 17, 2010

68) Health & Happiness!

Happy Chemical Equation:

Have Faith in God + Learn To Sleep Well + Find Love + Love Good Music + See The Funny Side of Life ---> Health + Happiness Will Be Yours!

When shall we start to do this?

.. Next Week?
.. Tomorrow?
.. Today?!


1) Shut the iron doors on the past.

2) See the positive side of everything.

3) Count your blessings - not your troubles...

4) Keep Busy! Read. Read. Read - Remember, a little activity is better than doing nothing!

5) Every day, do a good deed that put a smile of joy on someone’s face.

6) Find Yourself.. Find Your Soul-mate..

7) Stop Worrying.. Start Living..

Friday, May 14, 2010

67) Sa3a Ta3a Project ::: Part 8

وصية سريعة كدا

. . . لا تسلم قلبك إلا لبارئه
. . . فهو الأعلم بما فيه ومقلبه
. . . إن سلمته لإنسان دون الله, ظلمته
. . . فلا تحجب عنه النور وتظلمه
. . . دعه يحيا بذكر الله
. . . وليس لذكر سواه خلق

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

66) Do you appreciate beautiful things?

She is an old lady. Left alone in a big house with her French antiques, and her memories. Was starving for a little recognition. She had once been young and beautiful. She had once built a house warm with love. and had collected things from over Europe to make it beautiful. Now, in the isolated loneliness of old age, she craved a little human warmth, a little genuine appreciation - and no one gave it to her...
Suddenly, she found it, like a spring in the desert. A young man looked around the house to see what he could honestly admire and said:
- ” This house was built about 1890, wasn’t it?”
- “ Yes. that is precisely the year it was built.”- she replied
- “It reminds me of the house I was born in. It’s beautiful. Well built. Roomy. You know, they don’t built houses like this anymore.”
- “You’re right.” - the old lady agreed with a smile on her face. “This is a dream house.”- she said in a voice vibrating with tender memories. This house was built with love. My husband and I dreamed about it for years before we built it. We didn’t have an architect. We planned it all ourselves.”
She showed the young man about the house, and he expressed his hearty admiration for the beautiful treasures she had picked up in her travels. and cherished over a lifetime - an old English tea set. Wedgwood China. French beds and chairs. Italian paintings...
After showing him through the house, she took him out to the garage and said softly:” My husband bought that car for me shortly before he passed on. I have never ridden in it since his death . . . You appreciate nice things. and I am going to give this car to you.”
- He said:” Why, aunty? You overwhelm me. I appreciate your generosity; but I couldn’t possibly accept it. I’m not even a relative of yours.
- She said: Yes. I have relatives who are just waiting till I die so they can get that car. But they are not going to get it. Simply because they don’t appreciate beautiful things.”
- “if you don’t want to give it to them. khalas. you can easily sell it to a secondhand dealer.”
- “ Do you think I could stand to see strangers riding up down the street in that car?! I’m going to give it to you. You appreciate beautiful things.”


Do You Appreciate Beautiful Things?
and if you were in his place, would you accept such an expensive gift, just because you appreciate beautiful things? 3allel ...

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

65) Baba Aly!

Dear Baba Aly,

This is probably the hardest letter for me to write. Believe me when I say I miss you. and feel that I am in a real need to see you, talk to you as well.
Life is short. It has been 15 years since you left this world. God bless your soul...
Here, in our life, you can't imagine how people keep hurting each other everyday. Sooo many things to tell and how I feel ! I can talk about the matter for days ...
I have had so many feelings over the last few months about m..... Baba Aly, let's talk better in private.
(Very Long Private Letter)

The biggest question I have for you now is:
Why did he treat me so harshly? Why was I beaten with a belt, in public and at the hardest time of my life?! Did doing this make him feel better? It made me feel lousy, worthless, and ashamed of something I had no control over.
Is it possible to forgive him after all what he did? Should I forgive him aslan?

Baba Aly, thank you for listening. But I still have a lot inside...
May you rest in peace . . .


Saturday, May 8, 2010

63) Why Women Went Insane!

I think nobody knows why women went insane. Nobody knows for sure. But apparently, women who go insane find a feeling keda that they were unable to achieve in the world of reality!
My cousin once told me that she has a patient whose marriage proved to be a tragedy.
She wanted:

a) Love - To love and to be loved in return.
b) Respect - Reciprocal.
C) Understanding.
d) Sexual Gratification.
e) Children.
f) Social Prestige.

But life blasted all her hopes.

a) Her husband didn’t love her.
b) No Respect.
C) Mafish Understanding!
d) He refused even to eat with her.
e) She had no children :( !
f) No Social Standing.

She went insane! and in her imagination she divorced her husband.
What I’m wondering begad is that she is much happier as she is!

Friday, May 7, 2010

62) Sa3a Ta3a Project ::: Part "7" !!!

الأيام بتجري .. وكل يوم بيعدي بينقص يوم من عمري .. ! النهاردة الحلقة السابعة من ساعة طاعة - والحقيقة إني إتعودت أحب الرقم دا! من ساعة ما إتولدت في السابع من رمضان - السابعة تماما وحتي الآن! وكمان إتعودت أربط الرقم دا بكل حاجة باحبها. علشان كدا النهارده حابة اذكر نفسي وإياكم بكلمات باحبها. علمتها لي أول واحدة كان لها الفضل علي بعد الله سبحانه وتعالي فكانت أول من شجعتني علي حمل كتاب الله في صدري بعد صدور إذن من الملك من فوق سبع سماوات - علمتني كلمات قليلة .. بسيطة .. لكن كان لها أثر كبير .. عميق .. في تكوين جزء شفاف جدا من شخصيتي! وتعلمت إن المؤمن .. الكيس .. الفطن .. هو من يقف عند كل كلمة أو عمل بل وكل نظرة أو حتي إشارة ويفكر في عواقبها لأن ..... طب تعالوا نشوف الكلمات ونتعرف علي سر من أسرار رب الأرباب
إن الله تعالي خبأ ثلاثة في ثلاثة

خبأ رضاه في طاعته - فلا تحقرن شيئا من طاعته

خبأ غضبه في معصيته - فلا تحقرن شيئا من معصيته

خبأ ولايته في عباده - فلا تحقرن من أحدا من عباده

وقفة أخيرة: الإنسان مش بشكله. ولا جسمه. ولا سنه ... ولا علمه. ولا عائلته ... ولا ماله. ولا عياله ... ولا جاهه. لأن كل دا فضل من الله إن شاء أعطاه .. وإن شاء سلبه بكاف ونون وفقط! كن فيكون! - الإنسان بعمله. وخير الأعمال التقوي. التقوي في كل لحظة. فأكرمنا هو التقي النقي
صلي الله علي محمد :: صلي الله عليه وسلم

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

60) !.. قصة خلافاتنا

So Beautiful ! - By Nizar Kabbani.

برغم .. برغم خلافاتنا

برغم جميع قراراتنا

..بأن لانعود..

برغم العداء .. برغم الجفاء

برغم البرود ..

برغم انطفاء ابتساماتنا ..

برغم انقطاع خطاباتنا ..

فثمة سر خفي ..

يوحد مابين أقدارنا ..

ويدني مواطئ أقدامنا ..

ويفنيكِ فيّ ...

ويصهر نار يديكِ بنار يديّ ..

برغم جميع خلافاتنا ..

برغم اختلاف مناخاتنا ..

برغم سقوط المطر ..

برغم استعادة كل الهدايا ..

وكل الصور

برغم الإناء الجميل

الذي قلت عنه.. انكسر ..

برغم رتابة ساعاتنا ..

برغم الضجر ..

فلا زلت أؤمن أن القدر ..

يصر على جمع أجزائنا ويرفض كل اتهاماتنا

.. برغم خريف علاقاتنا ..

برغم النزيف بأعماقنا ..

وإصرارنا ..

على وضع حد لمأساتنا ..

بأي ثمن ..

برغم جميع ادعاءاتنا ..

بأنيَ لن ..

وأنكِ لن ..

فإني أشك بإمكاننا ..

فنحن برغم خلافاتنا ..

ضعيفان في وجه أقدارنا ..

شبيهان في كل أطوارنا ..

دفاترنا .. لون أوراقنا ..

وشكل يدينا .. وأفكارنا ..

فحتى نقوش سياراتنا ..

وحتى اختيار اسطواناتنا ..

دليل عميق ..على أننا ..

رفيقا مصير ..

رفيقا طريق ..

برغم جميع .. حماقاتنا

William James said: " The deepest principale in the human nature is the craving to be appreciated"

So, make the other person feel important. and do it "sincerely".

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

59) A Difference in Treatment!

One evening I was sitting in the kitchen with my lovely nephew -Amr- and after a brief discussion of something that was in his mind, Amoura said:” Nouna, I know that you love me very much”.
I was touched and said:” Of course ya habibi, I love you very much. Did you doubt it?
He responded: “NO. But I really know you love me because whenever I want to talk to you about something you stop whatever you are doing and listen to me...
I made it my business to listen carefully when one of my family or friends want to speak with me.

... Listening is just as important in one’s home life as in the world of business. Exclusive attention to the person who is speaking to you is very important. Nothing else is so flattering as that.

Saturday, May 1, 2010

58) Quran - آية اليوم

فَسَتَذْكُرُونَ مَا أَقُولُ لَكُمْ ۚ وَأُفَوِّضُ أَمْرِي إِلَى اللَّهِ ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ بَصِيرٌ بِالْعِبَادِ