191) ... شاهد عيان علي الياسمين

أريد رجلا يريدني .. أريد رجلا يحسني .. أريد رجلا يفهمني .. أريد رجلا يحبني

يحبني وهو يعلم أن الكثيييرات أجمل مني .. وأذكي مني .. ولكنه يبحث عني .. لأن روحي إمتزجت مع روحه .. ولأن أفكاري طابقت أفكاره .. وقلبي ائتلف وقلبه .. ومزاجي تشابه مع مزاجه .. وكأن دمي إختلط بدمه ..

ولا أريد رجلا يحبني لأنه بعد وضعي بالميزان .. اكتشف أني أحسن من غيري! .. ولا أريد رجلا يئن حنينا لامرأة غيري .. أو يشكو من حب مضي .. أو يحزن علي أمر إنقضي .. وإن كان قلبه مازال يبكي فراقها .. فليذهب لها! أو حتي يعيش علي أطلالها!!.. أما أنا فلا أجيد دور الطرف الثالث المعذب بلا ذنب!ا

.. أريد رجلا يحترمني في غضبه ورضاه
.. أريد رجلا يقدرني في كل الأوقات

ولا أريد رجلا أينما راح ينبت الياسمين .. وأينما ذهب إلتمت حوله الصبايا وتمتمت أسماء بالروح والريحان والياسمين .. واستقبل هو هذا وذاك بإبتسامات وغمزات وقبلات وأشواق وحنين!ا

أريد رجلا يحبني .. ويتبع السيئة بالحسنة لتمحوها .. ويربت علي كي أصفي وأنسي

أريد رجلا ينتزعني من ألمي .. ولا أريد رجلا ينتزع قطعة مني!ا

أريد رجلا يغزوني .. ولا أريد رجلا يترك الإحباط يغزوني!ا

.. أريد رجلا يختارني
.. أريد رجلا يريحني
.. أريد رجلا يحبني

.. أريد رجلا يرعاني
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181) A Woman's Heart..

The most precious possession that ever comes to a man in this world is a woman's heart... but men always realize that only after it's gone...
Please, when you like someone, never break her heart... be gentle enough instead of breaking it because a woman's heart is very soft, filled with true love, emotions... yet sometimes not ready to forgive and love!

"You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there." - Bob Marley
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168) Please Make Me Smile...

Sometimes, when people are sad, nothing can really bring them back right away.. Not Words. Not Good Advice. Or even the people around them trying to make them happy can't make them happy just right that... We should never tell someone to just be happy and forget about what's holding them down because we are not dealing with the pain in their heart... It's not that easy... It takes time and patience for someone to get back up...
Sometimes, you just have to sit there and wait, wait, wait for me to say: "OK, I am ready. You can make me smile now"

Please Make Me Smile
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164) ...and it's already Feb. 23, 2011!

It was a year since two friends who used to respect each other were complete strangers ... and they coudn't even stand each other ... They hurt each other badly with all possible means ... and then, one of them was brave enough to take steps in order to give this pure friendship the chance to live ... and the other one was kind and smart enough to appreciate the first person's deeds and realize the truth ... and above all it was Allah's Hand; Allah and only Allah has repaired everything ...

Friendship is perhaps one of the most beautiful relationships that two people can share; it's really valuable on its own... It is about sharing each other’s opinions.. dreams.. fears.. aspirations.. and hopes. It is about cherishing old memories and creating new ones everyday. and it does require a sound mutual understanding with lots and lots and lots of love and care for each other...

So, please.. if you have a friend with whom you’ve fought a big fight for some reason (the reasons for a broken friendship might be many) then it's time to forgive and give them a call or meet up.. Life Is Too Short to hold grudges and harbor bitterness.. cherish the people who have been with you and are always with you.. Friends are always friends no matter what.. and every friendship ya3ni goes through its good and bad phases, 3adi khales..

Please REMEMBER that you can make a difference by taking the first step and bridging the gap..

I know it requires a lot of courage to take certain steps, bas bardo mabastaw3bsh eno anything, a-n-y-t-h-i-n-g can separate 2 friends who respect and understand each other! begad mabastaw3ebhash di!

Well, let me say eno life sometimes separates people so that they can realize how much they mean to each other.. I guess..

P.S: Most often when people look back at their broken friendships, they regret it. So, What are you waiting for?


"A simple friend thinks the friendship over when you have an argument. A real friend knows that it's not a friendship until after you've had a fight".

!الحمد لله الذي جعل من ذكري هذا اليوم المؤلمة رحمة ومرحمة
.. لا يمكن كانت هتتحل إلا بيد الله
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152) ... فبما رحمه من الله لنت لهم

... أنا أكره القسوة

فإنها من أسوأ الصفات .. وهي من أسوأ العادات .. ولتعبير أكثر دقة .. دعوني أقول

! .. ليس أسوأ من اعتياد القسوة

! .. فلماذا القسوة

والأسوأ .. والأسوأ .. إذا جاءت من أقرب الناس .. من أغلي الناس .. من أحب الناس

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"فَبِمَا رَحْمَةٍ مِنَ اللَّهِ لِنْتَ لَهُمْ ۖ وَلَوْ كُنْتَ فَظًّا غَلِيظَ الْقَلْبِ لَانْفَضُّوا مِنْ حَوْلِكَ ۖ فَاعْفُ عَنْهُمْ وَاسْتَغْفِرْ لَهُمْ وَشَاوِرْهُمْ فِي الْأَمْرِ ۖ فَإِذَا عَزَمْتَ فَتَوَكَّلْ عَلَى اللَّهِ ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ يُحِبُّ الْمُتَوَكِّلِينَ"

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صلي الله علي محمد .. صلي الله عليه وسلم

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141) Different Christmas Time!

I wish if I could feel the Christmas spirit that comes every year with positive wishes and peace... but what I have experienced this year is completely different; my Christians colleagues (the majority but not all of them) totally avoid any communication with me just because I am Muslim since this terrible accident... never to say even good morning... I really don't know what did I do wrong? I never tried to bother or hurt one of them not even with a very small word or gesture. We used to have a reciprocal love and respect to each other for years, fa ma32oula one week is capable of doing all that... and destroying all what we have built in years!

Yesterday, before leaving the office, I thought about just leaving quietly without saying a word; neither Merry Christmas nor even goodbye... but it didnt feel right. I wanted to say at least something to them; ya3ni it seemed so unkind to simply vanish keda... but it was nearly impossible too to get through the risk, le2eno I couldn't imagine their reaction.

Elmohem, I finally did. I said it; Merry Christmas... and actually it was a heavy thing to find no answer :( ... tab leih, begad leih?

P.s. This was my own experience, but there is no ta3mim. and again, Merry Christmas anyway.
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140) Yes.. No.. Oh! I Don't Even Know..!!

. . . . . ., why can't you be straight with me?

Sometimes, you give me the feeling that I don't know you; who you are.. how you feel.. what makes you happy.. it's always a 'maybe'!

Maybe Yes ..

Maybe No..

Maybe I don't even know..

... Eih da begad?! Howa ana kont bat-thabet wala eih..!!!

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135) First Day of Winter Is When I Think About Romance...

Now is the time the end of Autumn. It's the beginning of winter already... Many people will feel lazy, show depression, appear listless, with cold hands & feet, dry lips... and even mental depression...! For me it's a Romantic Feel. Yes. In Winter I think about Romance... So What If - O Malo ...



So what if we got lost one night...
and left everyone behind...?
My darling I feel a new love...
You have filled me with this feeling...
and here beside me, I have the most precious person...
The most beautiful person...
So what if we got lost tonight...
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Darling, tonight let us forget all that is past...
Come into my arms and relax...
This night is worth the whole life...
There is nobody else for me except you...
and without your love, I would have no reason to live...
My darling, the best years are coming...
and every day, life will get better...
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My darling touch my hand, so that...
I may believe what is going on...
For so long I had wished to meet you...
and now there is no need to dream...
I am already here, beside the most precious person...
I am beside the most beautiful person...
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Darling, tonight let us forget all that is past...
Come into my arms and relax...
This night is worth the whole life...
There is nobody else for me except you...
and without your love, I would have no reason to live...
My darling, the best years are coming...
and every day, life will get better...

✿♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸❤¸¸.•*¨*•☆.｡.•*✿♪♫

134) Omm Min Elzaman Elgamil!

Faten Hamama (Rawaye7 Elzaman Elgamil) with her daughter Nadia Zou Elfakkar in a sportive competition :)
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فاتن حمامة (روائح الزمن الجميل) مع ابنتها نادية ذو الفقار في سباق رياضي :)
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131) :) فاستريحي .. فاستريحي .. فاستريحي ..

"With a woman he's crazy about, he'll put in all the overtime in the world. He'll be doing things for you, he'll be considerate, he'll want to please you, he'll try to cheer you up if you are down, and he will enjoy every moment because you are the person he values most."

- Sherry Argov

فاستريحي .. فاستريحي .. فاستريحي ..

128) *¨*•.¸¸ Noly ¸¸.•*¨*

My Lovely Cute Butterfly ...

Don't ask me why ...

or why you ...

I LOve YOu ...

Don't ask me what's so special about you ...

There is nothing special about you ...

(or at least, nothing I can put my finger on)

I LOve YOu ...

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With a sister like you, Noly ...

How could I ever be lonely ... ?

You're always there to share a smile ...

Listen to a problem ...

or just talk ...

and whenever I need a real friend, I know I can count on you ...

You're always there to make me feel special, important and loved ...

It's no wonder I LOve YOu so much ...

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You are a great person .. hard to find .. difficult to leave .. impossible to forget

You are fantastic .. intelligent .. sensitive

You are a gift !

But do I deserve such a beautiful gift from Allah?

✿♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸❤¸¸.•*¨*•☆.｡.•*✿♪♫

123) !...إِلَيْهِ يَصْعَدُ الْكَلِمُ الطَّيِّبُ وَالْعَمَلُ الصَّالِحُ يَرْفَعُهُ

بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الرَّحِيمِ

مَنْ كَانَ يُرِيدُ الْعِزَّةَ فَلِلَّهِ الْعِزَّةُ جَمِيعًا ۚ إِلَيْهِ يَصْعَدُ الْكَلِمُ الطَّيِّبُ وَالْعَمَلُ الصَّالِحُ يَرْفَعُهُ ۚ وَالَّذِينَ يَمْكُرُونَ السَّيِّئَاتِ لَهُمْ عَذَابٌ شَدِيدٌ ۖ وَمَكْرُ أُولَٰئِكَ هُوَ يَبُورُ
صدق الله العظيم

لم يسبق لي أن حملت طفلا في أحشائي .. ولكنني أحمل هذه الآية في صدري وأعماقي .. وارتبط بها ارتباطا وثيقا جدا ..! كأنها طفلي .. وهي سيفي .. كأنها قلبي .. وهي في قلب قلبي .. كأنها دوائي .. وهي شفائي .. استمد منها العزه .. وطيب الكلم .. والبشري

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... كل كلمة طيبة مفتاح من مفاتيح الحب

... والكلم الطيب لا يقف عند حد

... والعمل الصالح ما أكثره

ابتسم .. ابتسم لأن العمل الصالح يبدأ بابتسامة .. ابتسم حتي في وجه الحاقدين عليك .. واشفق عليهم .. وفقط تذكر أن الفاشلين ليس لهم حاقدين .. ابتسم واقصد بالإبتسامة الجميلة .. والكلمة الطيبة .. والعمل الصالح .. وجه الله ورضاه

Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around. - Leo Buscaglia

كثيرا ما نقلل من أهمية لمسة .. ابتسامة .. أو كلمة حانية .. أذن صاغية .. أو مجاملة صادقة .. أو أصغر فعل يدل على اهتمامك بالآخرين .. مع أن هذه الأشياء يمكنها أن تغير العالم - ليو بوسكاجليا

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106) ... KINDNESS ...

"Guard well within yourself that treasure: KINDNESS.
Know,
How to give without hesitation...
How to lose without regret...
How to acquire without *meanness*."
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This is one of my favourite quotes. I just don’t like it, but I do believe in it too. I hope you like it as I do...
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63) Why Women Went Insane!

I think nobody knows why women went insane. Nobody knows for sure. But apparently, women who go insane find a feeling keda that they were unable to achieve in the world of reality!
My cousin once told me that she has a patient whose marriage proved to be a tragedy.
She wanted:

a) Love - To love and to be loved in return.
b) Respect - Reciprocal.
C) Understanding.
d) Sexual Gratification.
e) Children.
f) Social Prestige.

But life blasted all her hopes.

a) Her husband didn’t love her.
b) No Respect.
C) Mafish Understanding!
d) He refused even to eat with her.
e) She had no children :( !
f) No Social Standing.

She went insane! and in her imagination she divorced her husband.
What I’m wondering begad is that she is much happier as she is!

61) Remember !

I tried to tell you, but you wouldn't listen

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59) A Difference in Treatment!

One evening I was sitting in the kitchen with my lovely nephew -Amr- and after a brief discussion of something that was in his mind, Amoura said:” Nouna, I know that you love me very much”.
I was touched and said:” Of course ya habibi, I love you very much. Did you doubt it?
He responded: “NO. But I really know you love me because whenever I want to talk to you about something you stop whatever you are doing and listen to me...
I made it my business to listen carefully when one of my family or friends want to speak with me.

... Listening is just as important in one’s home life as in the world of business. Exclusive attention to the person who is speaking to you is very important. Nothing else is so flattering as that.