We’re all different. You are a dreamer. He is very thoughtful. She is the sensitive one. They are straight. and I’m ... well, I write entirely to find out what I'm thinking, what I'm looking at, what I see and what it means. What I want and what I fear.

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Tuesday, August 31, 2010

100) أَنتَ أَغلى مِنَ الأَنا

"Why are you leaving me?
He wrote, I do not know how to live...
I do not know either but I am trying...
I do not know how to try...
There were some things I wanted to tell him...
But I knew they would hurt him. So I buried them and let them hurt me"

:/

... لنا أحباب لا يسكنون بقربنا
... ولكن يسكنون بقلوبنا
... يظل شذي ذكراهم يعطر قلوبنا
... كلما نضبت ينابيع المودة في حياتنا
... أغلي الأشواق نبعثها إليهم

xx

Monday, August 23, 2010

99) He Can't Value You More Than You Value Yourself.

"You think because he doesn't love you that you are worthless. You think that because he doesn't want you anymore that he is right -- that his judgement and opinion of you are correct. If he throws you out, then you are garbage. You think he belongs to you because you want to belong to him. Don't. It's a bad word, 'belong.' Especially when you put it with somebody you love. Love shouldn't be like that. Did you ever see the way the clouds love a mountain? They circle all around it; sometimes you can't even see the mountain for the clouds. But you know what? You go up top and what do you see? His head. The clouds never cover the head. His head pokes through, beacuse the clouds let him; they don't wrap him up. They let him keep his head up high, free, with nothing to hide him or bind him. You can't own a human being. You can't lose what you don't own. Suppose you did own him. Could you really love somebody who was absolutely nobody without you? You really want somebody like that? Somebody who falls apart when you walk out the door? You don't, do you? And neither does he. You're turning over your whole life to him. Your whole life, girl. And if it means so little to you that you can just give it away, hand it to him, then why should it mean any more to him? He can't value you more than you value yourself."

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

98) Quran :: 6 - آية اليوم

إِنَّ وَلِيِّيَ اللَّهُ الَّذِي نَزَّلَ الْكِتَابَ ۖ وَهُوَ يَتَوَلَّى الصَّالِحِينَ
. . .
" إن وليي الله الذي نزل الكتاب وهو يتولى الصالحين " - أي الله حسبي وكافيني وهو نصيري وعليه متكلي وإليه ألجأ وهو وليي في الدنيا والآخرة
. . .

Saturday, July 24, 2010

97) Sa3a Ta3a Project ::: 10

القرار لك .. والفرشـــاة مازالت في يدك
. . .

.. حياتنا لوحة فنية
.. ألوانها أقوالنا
.. وأشكالها أعمالنا
.. وإطارها أعمارنا
.. فإذا إنقطعت حياتنا
!.. إكتملت اللوحة الفنية
.. وعلي قدر روعتها
.. تكون قيمتها
.. وإن قامت القيامة
.. عرض كل إنسان لوحتة
.. وإنتظر عاقبته
. . .
. . .
.. فأبدع في لوحتك
!.. فمازالت الفرشاة بيدك
. . .
! القرار لك

Thursday, July 22, 2010

96) .. And She Is Touched!


We can make each other feel a little better, or even a lot better...
or a little worse- or a lot worse...
and all is by a word or two or even a smile- you make me smile, I feel happy... and so on ...
The net balance of feelings we have exchanged determines what kind of day - "good" or "bad" - we feel we've had.

... and she is touched by his words

Question: "Don't we fear the things we want the most?"
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أغداً ألقاك

يا خوف فؤادي من غدٍ

يالشوقي وإحتراقي في إنتظار الموعد

آه كم أخشى غدي هذا وأرجوه إقترابا

كنت أستدنيه لكن هبته لما أهابا

وأهلت فرحة القرب به حين استجابا

هكذا أحتمل العمر نعيماً وعذابا

مهجة حرة وقلباً مسه الشوق فذابا

أغداً ألقاك

أنت يا جنة حبي واشتياقي وجنوني

أنت يا قبلة روحي وانطلاقي وشجوني

أغداً تشرق أضواؤك في ليل عيوني

آه من فرحة أحلامي ومن خوف ظنوني

كم أناديك وفي لحني حنين ودعاء

آه رجائي أنا كم عذبني طول الرجاء

أنا لو لا أنت لم أحفل بمن راح وجاء

أناأحيا لغد آن بأحلام اللقاء

فأت أو لا تأتي أو فإفعل بقلبي ما تشاء

أغداً ألقاك

هذه الدنيا كتاب أنت فيه الفكر

هذه الدنيا ليال أنت فيها العمر

هذه الدنيا عيون أنت فيها البصر

هذه الدنيا سماء أنت فيها القمر

فإرحم القلب الذي يصبو إليك

فغداً تملكه بين يديك

وغداً تأتلف الجنة أنهاراً وظلاّ

وغداً ننسى فلا نأسى على ماضٍ تولّى

وغداً نزهو فلا نعرف للغيب محلا

وغداً للحاضر الزاهر نحيا ليس إلا

قد يكون الغيب حلواً .. إنما الحاضر أحلى
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Wednesday, July 21, 2010

95) And He Thinks What He Always Thinks!

He is never satisfied . . .
If he has a little, he wants more . . .
If he has a lot, he wants still more . . .
Once he has more, mmm, wala balash . . . !
. . . and he thinks what he always thinks . . .

Is it just that he doesn't understand how simple happiness is?
I don't know . . .
He always asks . . .
Who am I?
What am I doing here?
I don't need this. I don't need that. In fact, I need very little from everyone. I have all I want. I am big! I am great! I Am Big Mind . . .
I can have any woman I desire. Even though, I am lonely, and alone, and tired . . .
I NEED TO FIND MY PARTNER!!
I want her to be young, sexy, pretty, intelligent, rich, and famous . . .
. . . and he thinks what he always thinks . . .

I was planning to be happy . . .
Why the hell I am not happy!!
People like me. and they adore my work. They always tell me that. Others call me a hero . . .
Women . . .
Oh women immediately find some way of approaching me. They praise and flatter me. and offer me what they think I need . . .
The only thing I am interested in is sex . . .
But all I want is to be left alone . . .
. . . and he thinks what he always thinks . . .

Then what?!!
. . .

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

94) Principale :: 5

Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person. and show respect to the other person's opinion. Never say "You Are Wrong". Make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely.
. . .
A tribute to my lovely nephew - Amoura. It's his 11th Birthday :)
May Allah Bless you every moment in your life ya habibi...
. . .

Sunday, July 18, 2010

93) Good Girlfriend But Bad Mother :/

You can meet girls who seem to be perfect from all aspects; she is beautiful, sexy, lovable, smart, and has a career... But does this mean she will be perfect mother? and what are the signs she will be good or bad mother?!

P.S. Women are different. and if they fall in love, they can change their way of thinking. But better not to take the risk when it’s too late. Some signs can help you.
. . .

Saturday, July 17, 2010

92) Quran :: 5 - آية اليوم

أَفَأَمِنُوا مَكْرَ اللَّهِ ۚ فَلَا يَأْمَنُ مَكْرَ اللَّهِ إِلَّا الْقَوْمُ الْخَاسِرُونَ
. . .
أفأمنوا مكر الله " - أي بأسه ونقمته وقدرته عليهم وأخذه إياهم في حال سهوهم وغفلتهم" فلا يأمن مكر الله إلا القوم الخاسرون " - ولهذا قال الحسن البصري رحمه الله : المؤمن يعمل بالطاعات وهو مشفق وجل خائف والفاجر يعمل بالمعاصي وهو آمن !!ا
. . .

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

91) The Poison That Could be Saving Your Life!


When we hear chemo, we automatically think of hair loss, unfortunately there are many more serious side effects to the chemical nightmare that has proven so effective in fighting many types of cancers. Even though it’s important to know what kinds of side

effects to expect, it is equally important to remember that, no matter how devastating this all is, chemotherapy is still one of the most effective lines of cancer treatment to date.

Upset Stomach and Vomiting
One of the most common drawbacks of chemotherapy. Many of the drugs used in treatment sessions actually stimulate the chemoreceptor trigger zone of the brain - an area that controls the vomiting reflex. However, this can usually be controlled by taking anti-nausea drugs, drinking enough fluids, and avoiding spicy foods.

Diarrhoea or Loose Stools
It occurs during chemotherapy because the drugs affect the lining of the intestines. This chemotherapy reaction can last for a short period or intermittently throughout the duration of the treatment, depending on the drugs given and the dosage.

Mouth Sores
Because cells on the inside of the mouth are some of the fastest to regenerate in the body, they are the ones most susceptible to damage from chemotherapy. As a result, sores can develop, leading to possible infection and other problems such as irritation and dryness in the mouth and throat. Good oral hygiene is important during chemo. Rinse the mouth with saline, eat softer foods at or below room temperature and avoid hot and spicy foods.

Hair Loss
Not every chemotherapy program causes the patient to lose their hair. Certain people lose only their head hair, and others lose hair from all over their bodies. Like every other symptom, the visible results depend on the patient, the drug and the dosage. Hair loss won’t happen immediately and typically starts gradually, eventually escalating to hair coming out in larger clumps. It is one of the most dreaded chemotherapy effects, but it’s also usually temporary.

Anaemia and Fatigue
Low blood cell counts caused by the effect of chemotherapy on the bone marrow can lead to anaemia, infections, and easy bleeding and bruising. Patients with anaemia have too few red blood cells to deliver oxygen and nutrients to the body's tissues. Anaemic patients feel tired and weak. If red blood cell levels fall too low, a blood transfusion may be given.

Infections
Patients receiving chemotherapy are more likely to get infections. This happens because their infection fighting white blood cells are reduced. As a result their immunity becomes compromised and they become susceptible to infections. A doctor may prescribe medication to help white blood cells grow if the count drops too low.

Easy Bleeding and Bruising
Platelets are blood cells that make the blood clot. When patients do not have enough platelets, they may bleed or bruise easily, even from small injuries. Patients with low blood platelets should take precautions to avoid injuries.

Neuropathy and Damage to the Nervous System
Cancer patients may develop neurological problems due to the cancer itself or caused by the chemotherapy. A variety of problems can develop, including altered mental alertness, changes in taste and smell, seizures, and peripheral neuropathy (tingling and burning sensations and/or weakness or numbness in the hands and/or feet). Patients should discuss neurological symptoms with their doctor.

Heart Damage
Some drugs that are used to fight cancer, may cause serious damage to the heart. In these cases, the dosage is closely monitored in an attempt to avoid heart damage. Patients experiencing chest pain or any cardiac symptoms should seek immediate medical help.

Kidney Damage
A number of anticancer drugs can also cause damage to the kidneys. Some kidney problems can be lessened by having adequate amounts of fluids. A secondary danger of kidney damage is that a less functional kidney can be more susceptible to further toxicity caused by other anticancer drugs that the patient is taking.

Respiratory Problems
Cancer patients who have had radiation in the chest area are more susceptible to respiratory complications. Patients should get immediate medical assistance if they have difficulty breathing.

Sexual Function
Some drugs can lead to impaired sexual function and may result in the absence of sperm in a man and the lack of menstruation in a woman. Patients of child-bearing age are usually told to refrain from conceiving while undergoing chemotherapy because of the defects it can cause in the foetus.

Vision Problems
Some anticancer drugs can impact a person’s vision. Some can cause blurred vision in children, while others can cause cataracts. For example, Tamoxifen may be damaging to the retina, and cisplatin can damage the optic nerve. Conjunctivitis, commonly called pinkeye, is a treatable problem that occurs with many anticancer drugs.

Source: Vive Magazine.

Sunday, July 11, 2010

90) Principale :: 4

Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.
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Friday, July 9, 2010

89) Real Life & Facebook...

Moi wishes real life were like Facebook, if you can't stand someone, you block his whole existence with a click!
Complete:
You wish . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

88) For A Better Tomorrow :: Part 5

- Let’s fill our minds with thoughts of peace, courage, health, and hope - for our life is what our thoughts make it.

- Let’s try never try to get even with our enemies, because if we do, we will hurt ourselves far more than we hurt them - let’s never waste a minute thinking about people we don’t like.

- Let’s remember that the only way to find happiness is not to except gratitude - instead of worrying about ingratitude, let’s except it.

- Let’s not imitate others. Let’s find ourselves, and be ourselves - for imitation is suicide.

- Let’s forget our own happiness - by trying to create a little happiness for others.”When you are good to others, you are best to yourself.”
...
Think and act cheerfully, and you will feel cheerful :D
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Sunday, July 4, 2010

87) Cherish Your Love!

The worst thing you can do for love is deny it...

If people are truly. Deeply. Madly in love with each other, they will find a way...
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Saturday, July 3, 2010

86) What Does The World Want Of Me!

If I must be faithful to someone or something, then I have, first of all, be faithful to myself. If I’m looking for true love, I first have to get the mediocre loves out of my system. The little experience of life I’ve had has thought me that no one owns anything, that everything is an illusion - and that applies to material as well as spiritual things. Anyone who has lost something they thought was theirs forever (as has happened often enough to me already) finally comes to realize that nothing really belongs to them.
And if nothing belongs to me, then there’s no point wasting my time looking after things that aren’t mine; it’s best to live as if today were the first (or last) day of my life.
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Tuesday, June 29, 2010

85) Alone & Lonely !!

I am home alone; again! and it will be for a while. I really feel sooo lonely. Lonely with all possible meanings of the word...
My dear Mom is in the hospital. Just left her and arrived home feeling like I will start to cry... My sister and her sweet small family [her hunsband, my cute niece, and my lovely nephew] are still in Jaddah...
My love, my true mate... Lost by the Fates... Found by the moon.
My love, my true mate... Come to me... Now, don't delay.
by Zsuzsanna E. Budapest
(Repeat three times.)
...
My question is: What is the difference between being lonely and alone?!
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Monday, June 28, 2010

84) Principale :: 3

فن الاستغناء
...
... أطلب الشئ تكن عبده
... استغني عن الشئ تكن نده
...

Sunday, June 27, 2010

83) Careless Whisper!



I feel so unsure
as I take your hand and lead you to the dance floor
as the music dies, something in your eyes
calls to mind the silver screen
and all its sad good-byes

I'm never gonna dance again
guilty feet have got no rhythm
though it's easy to pretend
I know you're not a fool

Should've known better than to cheat a friend
and waste the chance that I've been given
so I'm never gonna dance again
the way I danced with you

Time can never mend
the careless whispers of a good friend
to the heart and mind
ignorance is kind
there's no comfort in the truth
pain is all you'll find

I'm never gonna dance again
guilty feet have got no rhythm
though it's easy to pretend
I know you're not a fool

Should've known better than to cheat a friend
and waste this chance that I've been given
so I'm never gonna dance again
the way I danced with you

Never without your love

Tonight the music seems so loud
I wish that we could lose this crowd
Maybe it's better this way
We'd hurt each other with the things we'd want to say

We could have been so good together
We could have lived this dance forever
But noone's gonna dance with me
Please stay

And I'm never gonna dance again
guilty feet have got no rhythm
though it's easy to pretend
I know you're not a fool

Should've known better than to cheat a friend
and waste the chance that I've been given
so I'm never gonna dance again
the way I danced with you

(Now that you're gone) Now that you're gone
(Now that you're gone) What I did's so wrong
that you had to leave me alone
...
George Michael
...
The Good Old Days...3aaahhh!!!
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Saturday, June 26, 2010

82) For A Better Tomorrow :: Part 4


Quick Question:
What is the biggest lesson you have ever learned?
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P.s: No Regrets .. But Lessons .. :)
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Friday, June 25, 2010

81) Principale :: 2

Let The Other Person Save Face.
Even if you think that you are right and the other person is definitely wrong, you have no right to say or do anything that diminishes someone in his/her own eyes.
"Hurting someone in his/her dignity is a crime."
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80) ! .. لو كان يرضيك تفضل كدا قدامي خلاص خليك

..! عاوز تسيب صورتك كدا سيبها
.. وتعالي علي نفسك وعذبها
.. بس إبقي قولي اللي إنت فيه دا نهايته إيه
حرام عليك
...

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

79) Principale :: 1

If you are wrong, admit it. Admit it quickly and emphatically.
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Sunday, June 20, 2010

78) FUN :: LOVE :: TAG

I love fun sooo much. and being tagged as well... The beautiful Ze2red and the amazing Hebba tagged me and asked me to play this game and to list down 10 things I love...
So here I go...

I love love for love. and love how beautiful it is - I love love words, loving eyes, caring hands...
I love dreams. and I love how when I dream of my life partner, I can see one only person.

I love sincerity - and I love how I am very sincere when I love.
I love my ability to speak without saying one single word when I am in love.
I love the way I finish my sentences with [ :) xx ]
I love hugs. and when I hug someone, I mean it.
I love number “7”; a lot ;)

I love Sun .. Sea .. Sand .. Sky .. Smiles .. Sugar .. Silence .. S .. Shhhh$
I love how I know my beloved ones will always be there when I need them to be.
I love the fact the I will always be there for them.


... Extra love

I love Books . . .
I love Arts . . .
I love Kids xx . . .
I love lollipop; a looot :)
I love the way I laugh.
I love the way a baby looks when he is sleeping.
I love my friends’sense of humor.
I love taking showers.
I love lemon.
I love vanilla.
I love to cook for the one I love.
I love it when people understand that I need my own space.
I love the sunset tea in the terrace with my mom. [ I love the sunset, the tea, the mint, the terrace and of course I love mom ]
I love my work.
I love it when a guy gives me roses.
I love Romantic Movies.
I love it when a guy kisses my hand.
I love it when a guy just calls to say he loves me.
I love tall guys. and I adore short ones.
I love the smell of guys after shave.
I love jealous guys.
I love the smell of guys perfume.
I love it when a guy compliments me.
I love talking about the guy I like.
I love to smile. but I love to cry when I am over stressed.
I love shopping [not always]
I love to take riskes and adventurous.
I love it when a guy does things he doesnt like just for moi.
I love clean guys.

I love this quote "It is not enough to have a good mind; the main thing is to use it well"
I love You ! :D
. . .

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

77) Quran - آية اليوم

فَلَمْ تَقْتُلُوهُمْ وَلَٰكِنَّ اللَّهَ قَتَلَهُمْ ۚ وَمَا رَمَيْتَ إِذْ رَمَيْتَ وَلَٰكِنَّ اللَّهَ رَمَىٰ ۚ وَلِيُبْلِيَ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ مِنْهُ بَلَاءً حَسَنًا ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ سَمِيعٌ عَلِيمٌ

يبين تعالى أنه خالق أفعال العباد وأنه المحمود على جميع ما صدر منهم من خير لأنه هو الذي وفقهم لذلك وأعانهم ولهذا قال " فلم تقتلوهم ولكن الله قتلهم " أي ليس بحولكم وقوتكم قتلتم أعداءكم مع كثرة عددهم وقلة عددكم أي بل هو الذي أظفركم عليهم كما قال " ولقد نصركم الله ببدر وأنتم أذلة " الآية وقال تعالى " لقد نصركم الله في مواطن كثيرة ويوم حنين إذ أعجبتكم كثرتكم فلم تغن عنكم شيئا وضاقت عليكم الأرض بما رحبت ثم وليتم مدبرين " يعلم تبارك وتعالى أن النصر ليس على كثرة العدد ولا بلبس اللأمة والعدد وإنما النصر من عنده تعالى كما قال تعالى " كم من فئة قليلة غلبت فئة كثيرة بإذن الله والله مع الصابرين " ثم قال تعالى لنبيه صلى الله عليه وسلم أيضا في شأن القبضة من التراب التي حصب بها وجوه الكافرين يوم بدر حين خرج من العريش بعد دعائه وتضرعه واستكانته فرماهم بها وقال " شاهت الوجوه " ثم أمر أصحابه أن يصدقوا الحملة إثرها ففعلوا فأوصل الله تلك الحصباء إلى أعين المشركين فلم يبق أحد منهم إلا ناله منها ما شغله عن حاله ولهذا قال تعالى " وما رميت إذ رميت ولكن الله رمى " أي هو الذي بلغ ذلك إليهم وكبتهم بها لا أنت . قال علي بن أبي طلحة عن ابن عباس رفع رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يديه يعني يوم بدر فقال " يا رب إن تهلك هذه العصابة فلن تعبد في الأرض أبدا " فقال له جبريل خذ قبضة من التراب فارم بها في وجوههم فأخذ قبضة من التراب فرمى بها في وجوههم فما من المشركين أحد إلا أصاب عينيه ومنخريه وفمه تراب من تلك القبضة فولوا مدبرين وقال السدي قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم لعلي رضي الله عنه يوم بدر " أعطني حصبا من الأرض " فناوله حصبا عليه تراب فرمى به في وجوه القوم فلم يبق مشرك إلا دخل في عينيه من ذلك التراب شيء ثم ردفهم المؤمنون يقتلونهم ويأسرونهم وأنزل الله " فلم تقتلوهم ولكن الله قتلهم وما رميت إذ رميت ولكن الله رمى " وقال أبو معشر المدني عن محمد بن قيس ومحمد بن كعب القرظي قالا : لما دنا القوم بعضهم من بعض أخذ رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قبضة من تراب فرمى بها في وجوه القوم وقال " شاهت الوجوه " فدخلت في أعينهم كلهم وأقبل أصحاب رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يقتلونهم ويأسرونهم وكانت هزيمتهم في رمية رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم فأنزل الله " وما رميت إذ رميت ولكن الله رمى " وقال عبد الرحمن بن زيد بن أسلم " وما رميت إذ رميت ولكن الله رمى " قال هذا يوم بدر أخذ رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم ثلاث حصبات فرمى بحصبات ميمنة القوم وحصبات في ميسرة القوم وحصبات بين أظهرهم وقال " شاهت الوجوه " فانهزموا وقد روي في هذه القصة عن عروة عن مجاهد وعكرمة وقتادة وغير واحد من الأئمة أنها نزلت في رمية النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم يوم بدر وإن كان قد فعل ذلك يوم حنين أيضا . وقال أبو جعفر بن جرير : حدثنا أحمد بن منصور حدثنا يعقوب بن محمد حدثنا عبد العزيز بن عمران حدثنا موسى بن يعقوب بن عبد الله بن ربيعة عن يزيد بن عبد الله عن أبي بكر بن سليمان بن أبي خيثمة عن حكيم بن حزام قال : لما كان يوم بدر سمعنا صوتا وقع من السماء كأنه صوت حصاة وقعت في طست ورمى رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم تلك الرمية فانهزمنا . غريب من هذا الوجه وههنا قولان آخران غريبان جدا . " أحدهما " قال ابن جرير حدثنا محمد بن عوف الطائي حدثنا أبو المغيرة حدثنا صفوان بن عمرو حدثنا عبد الرحمن بن جبير أن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يوم ابن أبي الحقيق بخيبر دعا بقوس فأتي بقوس طويلة وقال " جيئوني بقوس غيرها " فجاءوه بقوس كبداء فرمى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم الحصن فأقبل السهم يهوي حتى قتل ابن أبي الحقيق وهو في فراشه فأنزل الله عز وجل " وما رميت إذ رميت ولكن الله رمى " وهذا غريب وإسناده جيد إلى عبد الرحمن بن جبير بن نفير ولعله اشتبه عليه أو أنه أراد أن الآية تعم هذا كله وإلا فسياق الآية في سورة الأنفال في قصة بدر لا محالة وهذا مما لا يخفى على أئمة العلم والله أعلم . " والثاني " روى ابن جرير أيضا والحاكم في مستدركه بإسناد صحيح إلى سعيد بن المسيب والزهري أنهما قالا : أنزلت في رمية النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم يوم أحد أبي بن خلف بالحربة وهو في لأمته فخدشه في ترقوته فجعل يتدأدأ عن فرسه مرارا حتى كانت وفاته بعد أيام قاسى فيها العذاب الأليم موصولا بعذاب البرزخ المتصل بعذاب الآخرة وهذا القول عن هذين الإمامين غريب أيضا جدا ولعلهما أرادا أن الآية تتناوله بعمومها لا أنها نزلت فيه خاصة كما تقدم والله أعلم . وقال محمد بن إسحاق حدثني محمد بن جعفر بن الزبير عن عروة بن الزبير في قوله " وليبلي المؤمنين منه بلاء حسنا " أي ليعرف المؤمنين نعمته عليهم من إظهارهم على عدوهم مع كثرة عدوهم وقلة عددهم ليعرفوا بذلك حقه ويشكروا بذلك نعمته وهكذا فسره ابن جرير أيضا وفي الحديث " وكل بلاء حسن أبلانا " وقوله " إن الله سميع عليم " أي سميع الدعاء عليم بمن يستحق النصر والغلب
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Sunday, June 6, 2010

76) The Flower of Sincerity !

. . . The prince needed to find a young woman whom he could trust absolutely. On the advice of a wise man, he decided to summon all the women of the region in order to find the most worthy candidate.
Everyone heard about the preparations for this gathering - and Sousou felt very sad, for her daughter nurtured a secret love for the prince.
Moura noticed how her mother felt and she said:”my dear mother, I am not suffering and I certainly haven’t gone mad. I know that I wont be chosen. but it’s my chance to spend a few moments close to the prince, and that makes me happy... even though I know that a quite different fate awaits me."

. . . That night, all the most beautiful girls were indeed there. Wearing the most beautiful clothes. and the most beautiful jewellery. and prepared to do anything to seize the opportunity on offer.

. . . The prince announced a challenge:"I will give each of you a seed. In six months time, the young woman who brings me the loveliest flower will be the future empress!”

Moura took her seed and planted it in a pot. and since she was not very skilled in the art of gardening, she prepared the soil with great patience and tenderness, for she believed that if the flower grew as large as her love, then she need not worry about the results.

. . . Five months passed. and no shoots had appeared. Each day, she felt that her dream had moved farther off, although her love was alive as ever...

. . . At Last, the six months were up. and still nothing had grown in her pot...

The day of the audience arrived. The girl appeared with her plantless pot. and saw that all the other girls had achieved wonderful results... Each girl bore a flower lovelier than the last, in the most varied forms and colours...

Finally, the longed-for-moment came. The prince announced the result and chose Moura as his new wife!

... Then, the prince calmly explained the reasoning behind the challenge.

"This young woman was the only one who cultivated the flower that made her worthy of becoming the empress - The Flower of Sincerity - All the seeds I handed out were sterile. and nothing could ever have grown from them.”

P.s. in the picture, my very dear friends Marie "Moura" & Fady :D

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Wednesday, June 2, 2010

75) Think & Thank!

About 70% of the things in our lives are beautiful and right. and about 30% of the things of our lives are bad. sad. and wrong. If we want to be happy, all we have to do is to concentrate on the bright and positive things, and ignore the other dark side. If we want to be unhappy, bitter, and worried, all we have to do is to concentrate on the wrong things and ignore the beauty of our lives.

... Think about it. Think & Thank!

Think of all you have to be grateful for. and Thank God for all your boons and bounties.

If you think happy thoughts, you will be happy.
If you think miserable thoughts, you will be miserable.
If you think fear thoughts, you will feel fearful.
If you think sickly thoughts, you will probably be ill.
If you think failure, you will certainly fail.
If you think you are poor, you will feel poverty.
If you think you are rich,you will feel richness.
and so on ...
Here, I have a question, and it’s your turn to answer: Enta Ali Baba? in other words, are you rich enough?

... Think & Thank

Would you sell both your eyes for a billion $? and What would you take for your two legs? Your hands? Your health? Your pride? Your family? Your friends? ...

... Think & Thank

*Remember*

• Napoleon had everything men usually crave - glory, power, riches - yet he said: “I have never known six happy days in my life.” :/

• Helen Keller - blind, deaf, dumb - declared:”I have found life sooo beautiful.” :D

... Think & Thank

“ You are not what you think you are; but what you think, you are.”

... Think & thank :D

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

74) June 1st !

Oh Lala ... It's June 1st already!
A special day, really. Special occasion. But I can't tell if it is a good one or [...]. Should I love the day or [...]? Should I be happy or [...]? Should I feel good or [...]? Should I celebrate or [...]? Should this day bring good memories or [...]? Should I smile or [...] Should I say:"Koll sana o enta [...] or [...]? 

I am confused!
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Thursday, May 27, 2010

73) Hugs Quotes ...!

I am sooo in love with the following quotations about hugs. I should have been to stop loving; but I couldn’t. Love is a habit. and I really, really; really have that habit :D
I found a secret here in them... and I found them the cheapest kind of medicine there is on this earth as well - and one of the best.

So... Here I go...

• Millions and millions of years would still not give me half enough time to describe that tiny instant of all eternity when you put your arms around me and I put my arms around you.

• Everybody needs a hug. It changes your metabolism.

• You can't wrap love in a box, but you can wrap a person in a hug.

• Hug Department: Always Open!

• A hug delights and warms and charms, that must be why God gave us arms.
[Wow!]

• A hug is a handshake from the heart.
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• A hug is a great gift - one size fits all, and it's easy to exchange.

• Happiness is an unexpected hug.

• If you're angry at a loved one, hug that person. And mean it. You may not want to hug - which is all the more reason to do so. It's hard to stay angry when someone shows they love you, and that's precisely what happens when we hug each other. [Speechless $!]

• A kiss without a hug is like a flower without the fragrance.

• A hug is worth a thousand words.
[Sometimes it's better to put love into hugs than to put it into words.]

• You can't give a hug without getting a hug.


• Never wait until tomorrow to hug someone you could hug today, because when you give one, you get one right back your way.

• Hugs are the universal medicine.


• There's nothing like a mama-hug. [God.. Protect mama please and heal her of what she has. I have a strong faith ya Rabb]

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Wednesday, May 26, 2010

72) Today Is A New Life ! :D

Today is a new life ...
and I am going to live ...
I am not going to worry ...
I am not going to cry ...
I am going to smile ...
[Even if I’ll force myself to smile]
and if there is anything to mind over matter,
I am going to win ...
I am going to close this chapter of my life ...
and repeating ...
I am going to live :D ...

I learned to forget the yesterdays ...
and not think of the tomorrows ...
Each morning I say to myself:

“Today Is A New Life!” :D

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Monday, May 24, 2010

71) Salutation To The Dawn!


I had learned my lesson now...
No more worry for me...
No more regret about what had happened in the past...
No more dread of the future...
I concentrate all my time, energie, effort to live in Today. in Now. and in Here :D ...
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Salutation The Dawn

Look to this day!
For it is life, the very life of life.
In its brief course
Lie all the verities and realities of your existence:
The bliss of grow
thThe glory of action
The splendor of beauty,
For yesterday is but a dream
And tomorrow only a vision,
But today well lived makes every yesterday a dream of happiness
And every tomorrow a vision of hope.
Look well, therefore to this day!
Such is the salutation to the dawn.
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- Kalidasa, Indian Poet
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